Jessica & Alex

December 20, 2025 • Voorhees, NJ
281 Days To Go!

Jessica & Alex

December 20, 2025 • Voorhees, NJ
281 Days To Go!

Q + A

What is a Black-Tie event?

A black-tie wedding event is a classic and refined choice that fits the wedding dress code. You can liken it to the old Hollywood sophistication that elevates a drab affair into something glamorous. It's important to treat black tie events with a certain amount of formality, consideration, and respect. Be sure to conduct yourself in a way that reflects these values. Keep it classy so that you can have fond memories of the black tie event.

What is men's attire for a black-tie event?

The short answer is, Black Tie is a dress code that for men consists of the traditional tuxedo and accompaniments: a black dinner jacket and matching trousers, an optional black formal waistcoat or black cummerbund, a white formal shirt, a black bow tie or alternatively a black long tie, black dress socks, and black formal shoes. https://www.gentlemansgazette.com/tuxedo-black-tie-guide/etiquette/what-is-black-tie/

What is women's attire for a black-tie event?

A black-tie event requires a formal dress code and is a great excuse to get glammed up and wear a gown. Women should wear timeless clothing and in neutral colors; the darker, the better. Accessorizing should be simple and sophisticated, and hair and makeup should be natural. An example of a black-tie outfit is an evening dress or gown. Full-length gowns in dark shades and decadent fabrics are perfect for formal black-tie events. Stick to classic silhouettes and styles that won’t date and provide a timeless appeal. The code typically calls for a floor-length dress or gown. While cocktail dresses can be an appropriate option for black tie, long dresses tend to be a more elevated choice. Selecting a refined dress that features a simple and feminine silhouette and an elegant color, such as black, will help you nail the etiquette of this dress code. Regarding footwear, elegance is the order of the day. “When it comes to footwear, have some fun, but keep it classy and chic... Crazy platform pumps or lace-up-to-the-knee sandals should be left at home,” explains celebrity stylist Sarah Nearis in Who What Wear. https://generationtux.com/blog/event-guides/what-not-to-wear-to-a-black-tie-event

Does black tie mean women wear black?

A black-tie dress code does not mean women have to wear black. That said, black is a popular color to wear to these events and is timeless, classic, and incredibly sophisticated. Wearing a black evening gown with simple pearl jewelry and an updo will leave you looking and feeling glamorous. You can also wear other colors, but solid, neutral hues are best, especially in dark or rich colors. Pay attention to the detailing and fit of your outfit. https://www.thetrendspotter.net/black-tie-dress-code-for-women/

What should you not wear to a black-tie event?

A black-tie dress code is formal and requires you to wear classic and sophisticated clothing. For women, this is an evening gown or a floor-length dress. You do not want to wear anything short, tight, revealing, or bright and bold colors. The key is to keep it minimalistic and focus on the fit and quality of the fabric. A timeless style is ideal, and this is not the time for trendy, fashion-forward garments. Your hair and makeup should also be natural. Men should wear a dinner jacket with matching trousers, a pleated white shirt, black formal shoes, and a bow tie. Optionally, men can also wear a cummerbund or a waistcoat. It is important for men to dress appropriately to show that they are able to conform to the formality of the evening. You don’t want to overdress with a white-tie outfit (a tailcoat, white waistcoat, and white bow tie), but you also don’t want to appear underdressed. Try to avoid anything that may appear too casual. Opt for black dress shoes over loafers, for instance. https://generationtux.com/blog/event-guides/what-not-to-wear-to-a-black-tie-event

Where is the chapel/church ceremony location?

The wedding ceremony will be officiated, indoors, within the Mansion's all-glass pavilion. After the ceremony, guests will be ushered into the nearby Rosecliff cocktail room where they can mingle, sip on signature drinks, and indulge in an abundant variety of hors d’oeuvres.

Where do I park my car?

Guests are provided complimentary valet parking. Although tipping is not necessary, it would be greatly appreciated by the parking staff.

What about the weather

One can never be absolutely sure what the weather will be like on any given day. Not even paid weather people can forecast with 100% accuracy. But, here's a link where you can peruse through what is predicted for the coming days. https://www.accuweather.com/en/us/voorhees-township/08043/daily-weather-forecast/2258298

Will there be a coat check?

There will be a coat check when entering the venue. Please accept and hang onto the ticket provided, remember to tip staff when retrieving your coat, and clearly identify your coat when claiming it by using the ticket number or providing specific details about the garment if necessary.

Menu and Dietary Restrictions

Guests with dietary restrictions must make them known, in advance, so that the bridal party can make them known to the venue.

Will there be a cash or open bar?

We will be providing an open bar. If choosing to imbibe, please drink responsibly and avoid overindulging. Should you choose to drink, arrange in advance a designated driver or use a ride-sharing service. Please also be aware a dollar or two per drink is tipping standard.

What about children ... Can I bring my kids?

Although we love your children dearly, we politely request no children attend the ceremony and reception. Thank you in advance for understanding.

Is it ok to take pictures with our phones/cameras during the wedding ceremony?

We will be having an unplugged ceremony. We ask for guests to not photograph or video during the ceremony. Sometimes guests, in their enthusiasm to take that special photo, unknowingly interfere with the professional photographers and videographers, whom we have hired to capture our special moments. Please be respectful to these professionals and give them the space to perform in their very important roles.

Can I post wedding photos on social media?

Please refrain from taking personal photos/videos at the ceremony, or obstructing the photographers and videographer during key moments at the reception (first dances, speeches, etc.), but we encourage you to capture candid moments during cocktail hour and once the party kicks off. We take no issue with posting on socials at this point in the evening. A link to a shared album will be provided so that you may share all of these special moments in real time with the bride and groom.

Can I bring a date (plus one) to your wedding?

We politely requests that only the people listed in the invitation be present. Unfortunately, we cannot accommodate guests not indicated in the invitation.

What time should I arrive to the wedding ceremony?

The wedding ceremony is scheduled to begin at 4:30pm. To ensure it starts as planned, we ask that guests be seated between 10 to 15 minutes before its commencement. This may mean that guests should attempt to arrive 20 to 30 minutes beforehand. While waiting, guests can admire the ceremony decor and acknowledge other guests.